
Paul Morgan-Ayres
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Contributions of
Maslow. Positive focus in Humanistic Therapy
Maslow (among others) built on this work. Maslow in
particular was keen to emphasise focusing on the positive rather than
the negative. Traditionally psychoanalysis focuses in the "problems"
that exist in behaviour and conditioning. Maslow believed in focusing
more on the positive. He believed that traditional psychoanalysis did
not adequately explain what motivates people and what gives meaning to
human life.
Maslow developed the "hierarchy of needs" concept,
splitting the goals and needs of the person into catagories:
Self Actualisation Needs
Esteem Needs
Relationship Needs
Safety Needs
Physical Needs
He believed that the lower needs (e.g. physical)
needed to be fulfilled before higher needs (e.g. esteem) could be
completed. He acknowledged that his model was based on Western culture.
Maslow studied a range of "healthy" people and tried
to ascertain what qualities made them happy and healthy. He wanted to
focus on recreating these, rather than focusing in on pathology. His
definitions helped to broaden humanistic counselling, and further
define it's goals.
Maslow also acknowledged that person centred therapy
in some form or other has been around for a very long time, and that
"the helpers attitude" pre dates psychotherapy. Typical examples
including clergy, shamans, wise women etc. From this we can perhaps
conclude that person centred helping has a very established track
record in helping people.
Is Person Centred therapy for everyone?
No, it can not really be justifiably said that any one
therapy will suit everyone. To do so contradicts common sense. In the
author's opinion Person Centred Counselling is a very useful basic
system of counselling. It is potentially the safest and when adhered to
it is very hard to do any harm. In it's safety however comes its flaw.
Person Centred Counsellors are often critisised as being too "safe" and
nondirective. Frequently the client wants more assistance, knowledge
and direction. The concept that we all have what it takes to
self-actualise means that in strict person centred counselling there
are long gaps of silence where the therapist dutifully waits for "as
long as it takes" for the "penny to drop". Many clients get annoyed
with this delay, and others become disillusion with therapy generally.
In some cases clients may decide they can not be helped. Many clients
who have sought psychoanalysis from the author have previously had
person centred therapy and become annoyed at what they perceive as the
therapist being unhelpful. The standing joke is that all a person
centred therapist ever says is "Well what do you think?".
In the author's opinion, person centred counselling is
effective in assisting those clients who are already fairly self-aware,
and have some ability to verbalise their feelings. These clients
benefit from a caring environment and some support in healing
themselves. Also where clients have been bombarded with negative
comments, a caring person centred environment is very beneficial.
Inevitably however some clients have deep rooted
issues to deal with, and in these cases, and those cases where clients
are not already skilled at self-help, other forms of proactive
psychotherapy are faster and more efficient.
What is involved
and who to choose in Edinburgh?
In person centred counselling, the overall guiding
principle for the therapist is "you have one mouth and two ears, use
them in that proportion". As a result the client does far more talking
than the therapist. The therapist may encourage a topic for discussion,
but with then assist the client by reflecting back information to them.
The client speaks, often gushing information, the therapist acts as a
mirror, enabling the client to analyse what they themselves said. It is
true to say that when you hear something you said repeated back to you,
perhaps in a subtly different form, it can take deeper meaning.
By discussion, and reflection, understanding is gained
and the client is focused onto positive issues, feelings and outcomes.
The client becomes more confident, self aware and strong.
The author does not believe that Person Centred
Counselling is a "cure-all". Therefore he recommends that clients seek
therapists with more than one modality (type of therapy) available.
That way if person centred counselling is not for them, or indeed if
their needs change during the healing process, the therapist is
equipped to adapt to their needs.
You are therefore advised to seek a well qualified and
experienced therapist, with multiple methods available. He/she should
be qualified to nationally accredited standards (recognised by the
department of education either via the vocational route or accredited
university route). They should be professionally registered and
insured, and subject to standards of ongoing professional training and
development.
Always seek a properly trained, qualified and
registered therapist. look for adherence to occupational standards, and
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